The Unitive® approach to life coaching
Our Unitive® approach to life coaching is not based on any pre-conceived theory or set of techniques. Instead, it provides a safe and secure holistic framework that’s individually designed to support you through a creative process of self-understanding and potential fulfilment.
Unitive® coaching doesn’t assume, as many other approaches to personal development do, that you as a person need in some way to improve, to work toward some future goal, to change yourself for the better.
Instead, it leads to a total personal acceptance of the way things actually are, at any given moment. This does not mean that individual action in that moment is useless and a waste of time. What it does imply is that whatever it is that you presently choose to do – including the possibility that you choose to do nothing – will take you to a different place than where you are right now. That’s the hidden truth in the Zen proverb, ‘when nothing is done, everything is done’. As the way things really are is in a constant state of flux, you need to surrender to the on-going process of change – to go with the flow.
The Unitive® approach to coaching, by facilitating your awareness of what’s actually happening in the world about you, will enable you to do just that, so that you can activate your preferences, your intuitive, instinctive and personally fulfilling way of life, in the ever-changing reality of the here-and-now.
When nothing is done, everything is done
Personal authenticity is all about experiencing each event in your life as a present reality, instead of looking at it through the distorting mirror of the past. Once you’ve become part of that experience, your entire being – mind, body, and feelings – becomes an instrument for opening up receptive channels of communication between your own true responses and those of the people who share your present environment.
The Unitive® coaching approach never loses sight of the basic fact that life’s ’problems’ don’t actually exist in the external world – the world ’out there’ – but only in the way that you’ve been conditioned to perceive that world.
You actually have within you everything you need to follow your true path in life. The problem is that you’ve been led to believe that this is not the case!
To become personally authentic involves a sea-change in the self. It’s a shift from the personal to the transpersonal; from the ordinary to the extraordinary. Instead of trying to influence events from the outside, you find you’ve become an integral part of them. It’s a transforming process: experiencing the power of the present instead of just observing it. The magical aura it radiates is called charisma – the hallmark of true individuality.
In Unitive® life coaching we give you, the client, unconditional positive regard within a one-to-one dialogue, so as to establish a climate of mutual trust and acceptance. We’re totally dedicated to offering you an effective life coaching experience, for practical application in your every-day personal, social and working life.