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		<title>Do you lead an unexamined life?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 08:55:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[There are two basic ways in which you can live your life.  You can live it according to a direction  which is stuck like a carrot on a stick in front of you.  You can say, these are my aims, these are my goals.  The vast majority of life coaching approaches [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Unitive™ approach to coaching</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/the-unitive%e2%84%a2-approach-to-coaching/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 07:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Unitive™ coaching works toward attaining a level of personal awareness that sees the whole as being greater than the sum of its parts. By establishing a non-directive, non-judgmental and safe accepting ambience with an experienced and professional coach who has personally gone through the same process, the client becomes aware of both sides of the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get real!</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/who-needs-an-ego/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2007 11:57:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The ability to be who you really are - to act intuitively from your true centre - is the greatest gift you can give yourself. If you can get in touch with your authentic being you will recognise your real needs and desires and communicate those with others. Once you unlock the door to self-knowledge, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Body Language</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/body-language/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Oct 2007 12:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[As we progress through life, we gain a lot of experience of how to survive in the world through the simple process of trial and error. We learn about the sharpness of needles, and the hotness of ovens, the hard way. But when it comes to interpersonal communication, what can we do when someone we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Problem or difficulty?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Aug 2007 11:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[   The two words, problem and difficulty, are often used interchangeably. But, when you explore their true meaning, you’ll see that they refer to two quite different concepts. So let’s take a minute or so to explore the fundamental difference between the subjective, personalised and internal nature of a problem - that is, a conflict in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Unitive™ coaching - get wise to yourself!</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/unitive-coaching-harness-the-power-of-true-perception/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 14:39:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Unitive™ approach is all about learning to live your life in the light of present reality, instead of through the distorting mirror of the past.  It&#8217;s a magical process: personally experiencing the power of the present instead of just observing it from the outside. In order to tap into your innate sources of personal wisdom, you&#8217;ll need [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is it all just a matter of luck?</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/how-to-make-your-own-luck/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/how-to-make-your-own-luck/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 16:53:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The attainment of a personally authentic life is not anything to do with random chance, or with simply being lucky. If it were, in the long run all of us would be equally fulfilled (or unfulfilled!)  But we all know people who are consistently comfortable in their skins. Obviously this can’t be due to a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Putting yourself in someone else’s position</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/putting-yourself-in-someone-else%e2%80%99s-position/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2007 13:36:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many times have you heard people say, &#8216;I wonder what it feels like to be in that person&#8217;s position?&#8217; But if you really want to know, all you need to do is, literally, to act in exactly the same way. You can never become an expert in body language just by reading books about [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Listen up!</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/listen-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 May 2007 09:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The art of listening to other people is a very important aspect of successful interpersonal communication. Listening is an integral part of the process called attending. When you really attend to another human being, your authentic self will turn a deaf ear to the internal &#8217;static&#8217; - the Babel of contradictory messages from the various [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Lines from a poem</title>
		<link>http://www.lifecoach.co.uk/general/words-from-a-poem/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2007 15:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Bentley PhD</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[We shall not cease from exploration
And the end of all our exploring
Will be to arrive where we started
And know the place for the first time.
                                                              T.S.Eliot (&#8217;Four Quartets&#8217;)
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